Sex Advice for Seniors
Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Episode 69: When I went to see a Dom

Episode 69: When I went to see a Dom

This week Zoe casts her mind back to when she went for Dom/Sub sessions

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One of the benefits of growing older, if you haven’t already tried it, is discovering kink. There’s no expiration date on exploring alternative lifestyles, if you’ve always been vanilla. In this week’s episode, Zoe shares her experience with visiting a ‘Dom’ stemming initially from her professional interest before turning personal.

Unlike adult lifestyles such as swinging, BDSM rarely involves sexual intercourse; the pleasure comes from impact play and other techniques that may involve using electricity, ticklers, clamps, blindfolds or restraints to heighten the senses.

A word of caution - there are many fraudsters out there who, having seen Fifty Shades of Grey one too many times, confuse BDSM with the right to take advantage of their sub ignoring boundaries and consent. Before you agree to meet someone who advertises themselves as a ‘Dom,’ take proper precautions such as meeting for the first time at one of the many ‘munches,’ a place for kinksters to meet in social, non-kinky spaces.

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Sex Advice for Seniors
Sex Advice for Seniors Podcast
Everything you need to know to have a thriving, nourishing sex life as you age—whatever that means for you. Suzanne Noble and sexologist Zoe Kors are sixty, sexy, and honest. They discuss their own experiences and—as women in their sixties—bring years of sex and intimacy to reflect on in a witty, open and enthusiastic way. The series is dedicated to helping older people find their way to a healthy and enjoyable sex life. Whether you are just starting out with a new partner or continuing with an old one, there's sure to be something new here for you.
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Suzanne Noble
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