Too Young, Too Far, Too Few: Looking for an Age‑Appropriate Man in Chiang Mai

I am sitting in a noisy local restaurant in Chiang Mai, Thailand, where I am now living, devouring the largest plate of fried fish I have ever seen, drowning it in an incredibly spicy, chili‑laden sauce, when a Facebook message pops up on my phone. Only an hour before, I had posted my profile on Feeld, the app for people who are mainly looking for sex a…